i was found fully favoriable by a court but dienied by ecerybody

so a mother of three and wife, wife! married 27 years kids now grown and aim a grandmother, stayed home to raise kids, bc first one had to have emergency open heart surgery then my third on had 5 surgeries and colostomy both sons in Birmingham. hints to prior day I have Parkinson's for 5 years was found fully favorable by courts and because I didn't work enough due to me staying home to nurse my kids, I feel I'm being punished with chronic disease, not wanting to be rich just wanting to pay doc. bills, my husband works at same job for 29 years as a blue color hard working man all he knows to do, and has to keep insurance for obvious reasons all our lives, we didn't choose this life it kind of choose us. but I feel this system is broke! I see a lot of people with funds that is not disability in my opinion? I wonder how to get my story to the President of United States will help. wonder if he can help or make some kind of new law to help some of us moms in my condition with a deadly condition who chose to care for kids ad then got left behind because they choose to leave career to help raise their own very sick kids? then they got sick and got no help down the road? we help everyone else I helped and my husband helps but nope none for me!!!!!